together
repair
something happened.
you are here. that already means something.
you are here. that already means something.
relationships deserve intention
Even after rupture, every relationship needs oxygen.
Together is the questions that give it.
Together is the questions that give it.
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if it does not move you — email me. sophia@endrelationalconflict.com
Repair is not a mood.
It is a muscle.
It is a muscle.
130 questions. Five sections. The exercises most couples never do — the ones that build the muscle.
You are doing the thing most couples never do.
Most couples don’t repair. They move on. They go quiet. They walk away. They explain it to friends. They tell themselves it was fine. They tell themselves it was unforgivable.
You are here. You are trying. That already means something.
This deck is for the conversation underneath the conversation. The thing you were really arguing about. The thing you need to say that you have not said yet.
what you unlock
what happened
25 questions
understanding the rupture. what was underneath. what each of you needed and didn’t get.
finding your way back
30 questions
repair, accountability, and Terry Real’s feedback wheel — the four-step delivery.
going forward
25 questions
the relationship you are choosing to build. the patterns to break. the promises to make.
finding the solution
25 questions
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy. The miracle question. Scaling. Exceptions. What’s already working.
rapid fire
25 scenario pairs
no thinking. first answer. both at the same time. where you clash is where the next conversation lives.
130 questions across five sections — the full repair deck
includes Terry Real’s Feedback Wheel — the single most useful repair tool in RLT
rooted in Relational Life Therapy, Gottman and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
not to relitigate what went wrong — to move through it
play together, alone, or with your therapist
unlimited play · instant access on any device · yours forever
a question for you
finding your way back
“What would it take for you to feel like we had actually repaired — not just moved on?”
Most couples in conflict are not arguing about what they think they are arguing about. The dishes are not about the dishes. The silence is not about the silence. Repair exists for the conversation underneath — the one that actually needs to happen.
a note from sophia
In my work as an RLT coach I have seen couples on the brink find their way back. Not because the problem was not serious. But because they finally said the thing underneath the thing.
Repair is not about forgetting what happened. It is about understanding it well enough to move through it — together. The feedback wheel. The miracle question. The exception-finding. These are the tools therapists use. You can use them yourselves.
Repair is rooted in Terry Real (Relational Life Therapy and the Feedback Wheel), John Gottman (the Four Horsemen) and Steve de Shazer & Insoo Kim Berg (Solution-Focused Brief Therapy).
Repair is not about forgetting what happened. It is about understanding it well enough to move through it — together. The feedback wheel. The miracle question. The exception-finding. These are the tools therapists use. You can use them yourselves.
Repair is rooted in Terry Real (Relational Life Therapy and the Feedback Wheel), John Gottman (the Four Horsemen) and Steve de Shazer & Insoo Kim Berg (Solution-Focused Brief Therapy).
Sophia Anwar · Certified RLT Coach & Bootcamp Facilitator
repair is a muscle.
build it.
build it.
130 questions for finding your way back. Instant access. Yours forever.
Because relationships deserve intention.
Because relationships deserve intention.
£12.99
one-time · no subscription · instant access on any device
unlock repair
if it does not move you — email me. sophia@endrelationalconflict.com
made with love — together