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Back to Us
the empty nest reconnection
for couples whose children have grown
for couples whose children have grown
reconnect · rebuild · what now?
“The children have grown.
Now — back to us.”
Now — back to us.”
one of 314 cards inside
You raised them to leave. You did good work.
Now you get to find each other again.
Now you get to find each other again.
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if any of this is you
The children have grown. You raised them well. You raised them to leave. And now — now you get to find each other again.
The question nobody warned you about: who are we to each other now, after all these years of being someone’s mum and dad before anyone’s partner?
You have both changed a great deal. The woman you married is not the woman beside you tonight. The man you married is not the man she is sitting across from. You have grown — differently, together, through what you survived together.
This is a deck for finding each other again. For the rebuild. For the rediscovery. For the dreams you set down twenty years ago that you can now pick up. For the bucket list that quietly waited. For the honest agreements about how you want to live this chapter. And yes — for the grief when it arrives, honoured and held in its own section when you are ready.
Not a therapy workbook. A reconnection kit for the second half.
314
cards
8
sections
∞
forever
🎧 signature listening cards
Six moments across the deck where one of you
holds the floor for ten minutes.
holds the floor for ten minutes.
“Who you are becoming in this chapter.
I would love you to tell me, for the next 10 minutes,
who you are now — the parts I may have missed.
I just want to listen.”
I would love you to tell me, for the next 10 minutes,
who you are now — the parts I may have missed.
I just want to listen.”
One partner speaks, uninterrupted. The other listens — no fixing, no advice, no response. When they’re done, you swap.
This is where the real reconnection begins.
This is where the real reconnection begins.
what is inside
I
The Reconnection
70 cards · the heart of the deck
For becoming us again. Who you have become. The deeper seeing. The appreciations and repairs. The flirtation. The desire. The return.
II
The Bucket List
33 cards
What’s our next adventure? The places, the firsts, the dreams we can finally reinstate.
III
The Freedom
27 cards
For the dream you have been quietly holding — the one you set down twenty years ago.
IV
The Dream Building
32 cards
For the vision you are actively building together — the next five years, the next decade, on purpose.
V
The Shared New Agreement
43 cards
For how we want to live now — the rhythm, the roles, the adult children, the money, the boundaries.
VI
The Grief
35 cards
For what you lost when they left — honoured in its own place, for when you are ready.
VII
The Future
26 cards
For ageing, legacy and what remains. The conversations we have been postponing.
VIII
Us · What Now?
33 action cards
For when you cannot think your way back to us — and must do your way back.
a card to begin with
I · the reconnection
question
“Who are you today?
We have both changed a great deal.”
We have both changed a great deal.”
what this is
314 cards for the couple at the biggest threshold of their life together. Questions. Affirmations. Quotes. Signature Listening Cards. Action cards for the days you cannot think your way back to each other — and must do your way back.
Eight sections — the slow return to each other, the bucket list of what’s next, the freedom you forgot you had, the shared vision you are actively building, the honest agreements about how you want to live now, the grief when it arrives, the future you are ageing into together, and the small daily acts that rebuild the us.
“You raised them to leave.
Now you can begin again.”
Now you can begin again.”
Draw a card at random. Choose a section. Sit with it over dinner. Walk with it. Ask each other at bedtime. The deck is yours — a workbook for the second half.
what you get
314 cards across 8 sections
215 reflective questions · 33 affirmations · 26 quotes
6 Signature Listening Cards — 10-minute uninterrupted speaking exercises
33 Us Action Cards for rebuilding daily us
Draw at random or choose a section
Instant digital access · yours forever
Works on your phone, tablet or laptop
this deck is for you if
· Your last child has left home, or is about to
· You and your partner are at a quieter table and want to find each other again
· You know you have both changed, and want to catch up
· You have dreams that have been waiting twenty years
· You want the next thirty years to be designed on purpose, not drifted into
· You are ready to be a couple again, not just co-parents
· You want a bucket list that is actually ours
· You and your partner are at a quieter table and want to find each other again
· You know you have both changed, and want to catch up
· You have dreams that have been waiting twenty years
· You want the next thirty years to be designed on purpose, not drifted into
· You are ready to be a couple again, not just co-parents
· You want a bucket list that is actually ours
your workbook for the second half
The children have grown.
Now what do we grow?
Now what do we grow?
314 cards. Eight sections. 6 Listening Cards. 33 Us Actions. For the couple ready to find each other again.
£14.99
one-time · instant access · yours forever
buy the deck · £14.99
if it does not meet you where you are, email me.